{"id":3041,"date":"2025-10-14T11:00:02","date_gmt":"2025-10-14T11:00:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/buywyo.com\/?p=3041"},"modified":"2025-10-20T11:23:45","modified_gmt":"2025-10-20T11:23:45","slug":"married-at-28-divorcing-at-29-how-i-learned-to-own-the-narrative","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/buywyo.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/14\/married-at-28-divorcing-at-29-how-i-learned-to-own-the-narrative\/","title":{"rendered":"Married at 28, divorcing at 29 \u2014 how I learned to own the narrative"},"content":{"rendered":"
At 28, I thought I was building the life I\u2019d always dreamed of. I got engaged, shared it with my audience, and then brought them along on the journey. Over 10 million people watched my \u201cGet Married With Me\u201d video across my platforms. It was one of the most beautiful moments of my life, magnified by the fact that I had built this level of trust and connection with my community.<\/p>\n
But a year later, I wasn\u2019t preparing for another celebration. I was preparing for a divorce. The person I had married misrepresented who they were on nearly every level. Behind the curated moments and public smiles was a predatory relationship.<\/p>\n I took what could have been my deepest humiliation and turned it into a story of resilience. I launched my \u201cMarried at 28. Divorcing at 29\u201d TikTok series<\/a>. I wasn\u2019t sensationalizing my heartbreak. Instead, I was reclaiming the narrative and processing what had happened to me in the most honest way possible.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s why I decided to share my experience and how the experience shaped my career as an influencer.<\/p>\n Table of Contents<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/a> <\/p>\n When your life unravels on a stage that big, silence feels tempting. Hiding feels safe. But, silence doesn\u2019t set you free. Truth does.<\/p>\n I decided to go public about my divorce because, as a creator who prides herself on authenticity, I don\u2019t believe in only sharing the good and hiding the bad. My audience saw my engagement, my wedding prep, and even the most intimate moments leading up to the big day. To omit the ending would have felt dishonest.<\/p>\n Authenticity is what has helped me secure brand partnerships, and I view it as my duty to show the full spectrum of my story. What I\u2019ve found is that the best brands don\u2019t shy away from what\u2019s real. Instead, they embrace it. In fact, many of the opportunities that have come my way have been from brands drawn to my unfiltered storytelling.<\/p>\n When I announced my divorce, I didn\u2019t do it in a breakdown video. I did it in partnership with OSEA \u2013 a skincare brand I genuinely love. The tagline was simple: \u201cGlowing Through Divorce.\u201d In my campaign with OSEA<\/a>, I was able to weave my real-life journey into the promotion of their products.<\/p>\n Source<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n These are the collaborations that resonate most, because they aren\u2019t manufactured. They are born out of alignment. When they recognize that authenticity sells, brands are rewarded for their honesty with audience trust.<\/p>\n My partnership with OSEA wasn\u2019t just marketing. It was a declaration.<\/p>\n I was showing my audience that even in the middle of betrayal, deception, and pain, I could choose light. I could choose to nourish myself, to take care of my body and spirit, and to glow from within.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s what people connected with. Not the perfection of my past, but the courage to live in the truth of the present.<\/p>\n <\/a> <\/p>\n Since I began telling my story, tens of thousands of women have reached out to share their own. Some even confided that my transparency gave them the courage to finally leave abusive, narcissistic, and predatory relationships. Others admitted they hadn\u2019t even realized they were in one until my videos gave them language for their experience.<\/p>\n Men, too, have reached out \u2014 many recognizing the patterns of deception, gaslighting, and emotional sabotage in their own lives.<\/p>\n The messages flood in daily. Comments pour in on every post. And what I\u2019ve realized is this: When you speak truth, you give others permission to do the same. You create connection not just through relatability, but through liberation.<\/p>\n That is why audiences resonate so deeply with this story. Because it doesn\u2019t just entertain \u2026 it validates. It reminds people they aren\u2019t alone. That exposure is often the first step toward freedom.<\/p>\n And from a professional standpoint, my experience reinforced one of the most important lessons of my career: honesty creates community, and community creates longevity. My credibility as a creator hasn\u2019t been damaged by sharing my divorce. In fact, it has been strengthened.<\/p>\n Brands haven\u2019t pulled back because of my vulnerability. They\u2019ve leaned in. They\u2019ve seen that authenticity deepens trust, and trust is the currency of influence. That\u2019s why partnerships like my campaign with OSEA announcing my divorce resonated so strongly.<\/span><\/p>\n When content is rooted in truth, it doesn\u2019t just sell products \u2014 it builds belief.<\/p>\n
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Choosing to Go Public<\/h2>\n
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